Threesome Dating

The best threesome dating site provides threesome dating for 3some finder on your local. In here, you can find bisexual couples, bisexual singles and open-minded swinger to enjoy threesome.

2018/11/21

Threesome has not been a difficult thing to do anymore thanks to the threesome dating sites. If you want to know how to be a threesome or swinger finder, you have come to the right place since we're going to share you some useful tips.

Focus on the niche dating site

Many dating sites offer you the opportunity to meet new people. However, your chance might be tiny if you join with the general dating site. It is imperative to participate with the website that provides a good place based on your specific needs. For instance, if you are threesome finder, it is a great idea to join with threesome websites. You will find a lot of same-minded people and make friendship and threesome hookup easily. You can even get laid tonight if you see the right threesome sites.

Share your preferences

Many people have been up and down with the adult dating. Many people want to flirt around and have fun with their preferences. Whether you are a couple looking for the third, or the one looking for the couple, you will want to be clear when you share your profile. Make sure that you notify the other party about what you want and desire.

Safe and secure website

Choose the website which respects your privacy and discretion. The trusted and reliable dating sites won't misuse the details they attained from their members. You will want to use precautions when joining with the online dating site. If it is the first time for you, consider taking the time to read the reviews out there and pinpoint the most reliable dating sites.

The features of the site

You can't go wrong to join with the popular dating site. The popular dating sites usually have the big membership base wherein the number of members will help you to find the person who can match with you. You can join with similar dating sites but always try them first before upgrading your membership. Most of the polyamorous dating sites offer free membership for new users to assess and try their features. You will want to use this opportunity not only to try the features but also to check on their membership base and browse the profiles. If you find many exciting patterns to approach, you could upgrade your membership to reveal all the premium features of the dating site.

Use the services while on the go

You could also consider joining the poly dating site which offers the mobile app as well. That way you can use the service and interact with other members while on the go.

2018/09/11

Have you ever fantasized about a threesome with polyamorous couples or poly woman? Polyamory, as well as other non-traditional ways of structuring relationships, are increasingly common among all cross-sections of society. If you're looking for others who subscribe to polyamorous dating, here are best 5 polyamorous dating sites for threesome fun to check out.
 poly dating site for polyamorous singles and couples looking for open relationship dating



Bicupid is the first, largest, secure and most effective dating site for bisexuals, bi-curious, singles, couples and polyamorous people. Our site is designed for bisexual and polygamy singles and couples individuals. Here you can find sexy and open-minded singles & couples looking to explore their sexuality, chat, hookup, threesome, etc. We also offer many features to facilitate people looking for anything from lovers to intimate relationships.

Adultfriendfinder is one of the most popular dating sites out there. It helps millions of people find traditional partners, threesomes, polyamory, swinger groups and several other alternative partners. It's one of the top dating sites available today with a member base exceeding well over 25 million. If you are looking for sex or hoping to meet someone special for hot and special relationship.

Bi Couples, as the most one of professional polyamory dating sites catering to the needs of polyamory singles & couples looking for open relationship. The site also provides more various kinds of dating services, including swinger lifestyle, threesome dating and casual dating. It takes you only 5 time and you will find what your want out there. Now just press the visit site and you will start a amazing poly explore trip.

PolyDating belongs to Dating Media Group which own FarmersDatingSite, DatingforSeniors, BikerPlanet, HsvSingles and DateaMillionaire, it’s also a big company. PolyDating established in 2009, unlike BiCupid, AFF and AshleyMasdion, it only focuses on polyamorous dating. So If you are looking for more, I don’t suggest you sign up on this site. But their blog page can’t open now, maybe they need to fix it as soon as possible, during this period, you can check our polyamorous blogs to review advice and tips. PolyDating is also ranked as the top poly dating sites by others review sites.

PolyamorousDatingSite.com belongs to Infinite Connections, they also have lots of other general and polyamory dating sites, but all of them are not that famous. When you registered on PolyamorousDatingSite.com, your profile will automatically appear on other related polyamorous dating sites that found by Infinite Connections too. And you don’t need to pay any more for this feature. What you should care about are your account’s safety and privacy.



2018/07/19

Plenty of couples and singles have fantasy about adding a third person to spice thing up. Maybe you are curious about a threesome relationship. Whatever the reason for deciding to try to have a threesome, It will be a unforgettable experience on your sexual history. If you you are couple looking for third person for a threesome, do you know how to find the third person for threesome relationship?
It’s important that both you and your partner agree on whoever it is that will be touching, kissing and sleeping with both of you. Therefore, you need find a right third person who are looking for couple for threesome. Here we list some tip of threesome dating when it comes to find a third person.

Local Threesome club

If you and your partner want to find a third person for threesome in real life, you can search and choose a popular threesome club in your area. If you have no ideas where to find such a club, you ask your friends to introduce or enter "threesome club" on Google or other search engineer. It may take time and energy to find a third person for threesome. If you have enough time and energy, you can try this advice. However, if you are busy and have few time to try your fortune, you can try the second way: Join a threesome site.

Find a third person on threesome sites

It is not a easy job to find a threesome in real life. More and more couples and bisexual women and men looking for threesome online. If you find difficult to find a threesome in real life you can choose a popular and safe threesome dating site to find a their one.
Use search engine like Google search ”couple looking for third”, “threesome sites” or “threesome finder” to find a reliable threesome site. You will find a big variety of threesome sites for you to choose, if you want to save time to check these threesome sites, you can check a review of threesome sites, such as coupleseekingawoman.com to find the best site easily.
One important thing you need keep in mind is to remember choose one dating site with high reputation and large members which can protect users’ privacy and find a threesome quickly.

Steps of finding a threesome on threesome site

When you join a threesome site you need use right ways to find a third person. After choosing the best and most suitable threesome site, like Couple Looking For A Third. If you are new about threesome dating site, you can check the following steps to find a third person for threesome relationship through online threesome dating.
Create a threesome profile. When you join a threesome site, you need create an attractive profile which plays an important role for people to attract a couple or third person for threesome relationship. The online dating profile made for two is that the threesome partner can easily figure out if they’re attracted to what you mutually offer.
Choose suitable photos. Do not skip this step when you are creating a profile. If you are couple looking for a third, you can choose you and your partner photo, if you are a single bisexual woman or bisexual man, you can use your own photos without group photo.
Contact potential third person for threesome dating. After finding a suitable bisexual woman or man, contact her/him without doubts. You can send messages or emails to get to know each other. Do not wait the bisexual women or men to contact you. Firstly, you can send flirts or winks to these users you are interested, it is a nice beginning to start a threesome dating.
Are you a couple looking for third person for threesome relationship? Check the safe and high quality threesome site: Couple Looking For A Third and find your third person for threesome dating now.

2018/05/18

Here I will told you my story about threesome dating in my life, I never forget it.


I had a threesome recently that revealed very interesting things about trust. It was with my friend(M) who I’ve had erotic encounters with before. They were fun and surprisingly inviting situations that I’ve found no problem in returning to, and re-exploring with him.


I don’t normally feel that way with men, but lo and behold, this guy got his shit together. We’ve had a little fun, and even have pictures to show for it! Good times, captured on camera. So yeah, chance favored the bold, and when I was invited to another threesome with him and his lady friend, I was like, “Sure!”

Alas, I learned quickly that not all threesomes are equal. He said she was experienced in kink and was ready to do things together, so I was open to her. I liked him and he liked her, so I thought, hey I should like her. When she showed up, I did like her! But…

She didn’t… trust me. Not quite yet.

When we started to play, things were kinda fun and kinda connected, but there was a distance between her and I that I could feel. We were both naked, roped up, and under his control for the domination scene he was conducting, but we were not in the same subspace.

I could feel her movement and avoidance from me, emotionally and erotically. She just didn’t trust me yet. So after a few moments of me letting her get comfortable, and feel her way through the scene with her first partner, I just stepped back from the fun.

A few moments later, she said, “I gotta mention this, I’m not feeling fully connected…”

I said, “I know… but I promise you, I won’t break your trust.” I said a few more things to her to open up myself to her experience and privacy, to show her that I was sharing just as much as she was, and that she could trust me. After that moment, she felt connected to me, and the role playing got more spicy!

It took some sensitivity though. Not everyone could tell. Not everyone would see. Not everyone might care. I know I did though. I’m not just in it for me! That doesn’t work in a threesome. It will fail.

From that point on, things were totally different. I could feel her vibing with me. We knelt on a bench together while our naked asses got flogged and caned! Few things will unite you with another person than being smacked on the ass with the same kinky toys by the same dominant’s hand! Trust me on that one, my good friend.

2018/03/13

Did you know that two out of five couples in the UK now sign up online 3some dating sites? That's 40% of all couples and some singles who love to spice sexual things up with other open minded individuals, especially couple looking for a woman! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real 3some as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.

looking for open couples for 3some dating

women looking for couples


Why is this? Well, it's true that some 3some sites are better than others; they have more traffic, they are better to navigate; they just 'work' whilst others just don't. But what really matters is how you use a site when you actually sign-up to be a member. Take my word for it, unless you take the five simple steps that I'm about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a 3some dating site. What I'm about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you'd
be surprised at how many people don't bother doing the 'obvious'. So here goes...
how can I do on 3some dating sites


1. Create A Great Profile. This is the most important aspect of your 3some dating site experience. Don't just say 'Nice couples seeks nice girl for fun' - That's too direct to be accepted? Take the time to say something about yourself, your swinger lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you're hoping to meet. And remember to sound happy, upbeat, fun and confident; if you're miserable about your recent breakup, then keep it to yourself! This isn't the time for modesty; if you think you're pretty darn attractive, then be sure to say so. And humour is a real ice-breaker - if you can make someone laugh, they'll be more likely to want to contact you.
a good profile


2. Always Upload A Photo. Even if you don't have a very flattering one to hand, you should always post a pic with your profile. Remember, 95% of people on 3some dating sites only search for other members who have bothered to provide a picture of themselves. You want to see what other potential partners look like so it stands to reason that other people will want to know what you look like too. If your photo isn't recent or isn't a great likeness of you, you can always say so in your profile.
upload your photos


3. Be Proactive. Don't just join a 3some dating site and expect other people to contact you. Make sure you regularly search the database for people with whom you might be compatible and when you find
someone you like the look or sound of, write to them immediately and tell them why you think you might be a good fit.

4. Write Great Emails. OK, you've joined a 3some dating site, you've searched for other members who fall within your specified categories, and you've been presented with a page of matching profiles. You're eager to fire off a few emails...but what on earth do you say in them? Re-read the paragraph above about creating a great profile and apply the same rules to the first email that you send to another member. If it looks like you can't be bothered to say much or that you're sending the same one line message to several people, then they probably wont bother to reply. Tell that person a little about who you are and why you think you might both be compatible - respond directly to what you've read in that person's profile - sound interested and interesting and you'll get an email by return - sound boring and downbeat and you'll just be ignored.

5. Check Back With The Site. There are two reasons why you should do this as often as possible. The most obvious one is to keep up to speed with who has joined since you last logged-on; that special someone might have signed-up since you last visited the site so don't miss out. However, what most people don't realise is that when you log-in to a 3some dating site, your profile moves up the listings on the internal search engine which means that you are more likely to be spotted and subsequently contacted by other people. Don't be a stranger to the site you've joined and I recommend that you visit the site at least

2018/03/07

Many people viеw ѕubjесtѕ rеgаrding ѕеxuаl preferences аѕ tаbоо. It iѕ nоt ѕоmеthing whiсh is ореnlу diѕсuѕѕеd оvеr the dinnеr table оr at раrtiеѕ, unless уоu know whiсh раrtiеѕ tо go tо! Bisexual Couples оftеn discuss the idea оf a 3some dating but it nеvеr mаtеriаlizеѕ, оwing to factors such as who to аѕk, how to аѕk and whеthеr реорlе will bе арраllеd or intriguеd. Aѕ a result it lеаvеѕ thе subject of ‘menage a tоiѕ’ in a sort of dаrk spot. Mаnу оf the tаbоо оr rarely diѕсuѕѕеd ѕеxuаl ѕubjесtѕ, ѕuсh as bоndаgе, diѕсiрlinе аnd ѕаdо-mаѕосhiѕm tend tо bе ‘undеrgrоund’ subjects which are reserved fоr those whо knоw ѕоmеоnе, whо knows ѕоmеоnе еlѕе, whо knоwѕ whеrе tо gо, but in gеnеrаl thеу are nоt widеlу advertised.
Sоmе couples mау tаlk аbоut thе idеа оf inviting a third реrѕоn into their bеdrооm but it iѕ nоt еаѕу tо find that third whееl, willing tо participate. Aѕking реорlе уоu knоw can bring up аll ѕоrtѕ оf iѕѕuеѕ. Will they bе sickened bу thе idea аnd nеvеr speak tо уоu bоth аgаin? Will it саuѕе рrоblеmѕ with уоur соzу twоѕоmе? Will bе cause difficulties аnd аwkwаrdnеѕѕ afterward? Mауbе it is bеttеr to ѕеlесt a ѕtrаngеr whо iѕ willing.
Nеxt ԛuеѕtiоn… hоw do уоu find a stranger whо iѕ willing? Thеrе аrе certain criteria thаt уоu ѕhоuld соnѕidеr whеn уоu dесidе on a 3some. Thе emotional ѕtаtе оf уоur роtеntiаl third wheel ѕhоuld be соnѕidеrеd very ѕеriоuѕlу. Yоu will want a реrѕоn of еmоtiоnаl ѕtrеngth and dеtасhmеnt, оthеrwiѕе their frаgilitу mау bе a рrоblеm. If, fоr еxаmрlе, they are emotional frаgilе thеу mау read far too much intо thе situation and bесоmе tоо emotionally attached tо еithеr уоu оr уоur раrtnеr. If your thrееѕоmе is to bе a оnе-timе аffаir, уоu will mоѕt сеrtаinlу wаnt someone willing tо do thе dееd аnd walk аwау hарру аt thаt. Yоu ѕhоuld аlѕо think аbоut thе type оf ѕеx this third whееl is willing to раrtiсiраtе in. If you аrе intо BDSM уоu will wаnt tо find a suitable реrѕоn to соmрlimеnt you and уоur раrtnеr’ѕ preferences. Fоr instance, if you want tо use a paddle оn уоur third wheel,  уоur third wheel has to аgrее tо wаnt tо be раddlеd. Yоu can’t juѕt ѕtаrt wаllорing their butt right in the middlе оf it withоut firѕt asking if they likе it!
How tо Find thаt Extra Whееl
Where does оnе ѕtаrt lооking fоr thiѕ third whееl? Thе intеrnеt seems to be thе best place fоr finding potential recruits. Sосiаl nеtwоrking sites аnd оnlinе реrѕоnаlѕ оffеr a grеаt wау to mееt sexually adventurous folks willing tо раrtiсiраtе in thrееѕоmеѕ. Of соurѕе, with the Intеrnеt involved, comes certain саutiоnѕ and wаrningѕ. Lеt’ѕ ѕuрроѕе you lооk lосаllу in thе personals liѕtingѕ and you find ѕоmеоnе willing tо раrtiсiраtе. Firѕt thing wоuld be tо write thеm a reply аnd tеll thеm whаt уоu are lооking fоr. Aѕk for a photo if thеrе iѕ nоt one роѕtеd on thеir рrоfilе аnd ѕеnd thеm оnе оf уоu bоth, in return. Thiѕ iѕ mоrе so thаt уоu саn knоw that thе реrѕоn iѕ whо thеу say thеу are if уоu dесidе tо mееt up to diѕсuѕѕ tеrmѕ. Alwауѕ meet initiаllу оn neutral grоund аnd dо not give оut your private рhоnе numbеr or address until уоu’rе perfectly соmfоrtаblе doing ѕо.
If уоu and your раrtnеr have diѕсuѕѕеd thе idеа of a thrееѕоmе аnd it is an еԛuаl сhоiсе fоr bоth of уоu in the couple, thеn уоu ѕhоuld both аttеnd thе firѕt mееting. Aftеr all, it is important thаt уоu, уоur partner аnd your guest аll likе each оthеr. Bodily hуgiеnе is a vitally imроrtаnt factor, as wеll as finding оut if thеrе аrе any соmmuniсаblе diseases. Not such a рlеаѕаnt thing tо ask уоur third wheel, but it is nесеѕѕаrу for thеir hеаlth аѕ wеll аѕ yours that you ѕhоuld аll bе hоnеѕt аbоut your hаbitѕ. It might not seem аррrорriаtе to аѕk fоr mеdiсаl сеrtifiсаtеѕ but if it саn be diѕсuѕѕеd it ѕhоuld. Cоndоmѕ аnd ѕаfе ѕеx ѕhоuld аlwауѕ bе practiced.


6March
When some open-minded people talk about sexual experience, a topic about threesome can be little private but it is the truth that NO ONE can refuse it and even lots singles and couples have fantasized about spicing a third up on their bed. When the opportunity for a threesome dating arises in your real life, however, a lot of people get caught off guard. Thanks to tried and tested threesome dating sites available, arranging for a threesome is now easier than ever, but that does not mean that actually taking part in a threesome is as simple. Top 5 threesome dating sites for threesome finder will help you to arrange for the threesome itself, there is a certain degree of 3some etiquette that you must familiarize yourself with first. Here’s a look at a few dos and don’ts when having a threesome.
  • Don’t get attached – To a lot of people, threesomes are purely about sex and having a good time. For this reason, you should ensure that you do not get attached to any other person involved, as this can really mess with your head. Not only can it lead to jealousy, it can also lead to heartbreak, especially if the other member does not share the same feelings as you.
  • Do have a small drink if that will help you relax – When you take part in a threesome, it is perfectly normal to feel nervous at first, especially if it’s your first time. If you feel that having a small drink of something strong will help you to relax a little, feel free to have a glass or two. Whilst say, one or two whiskies will be fine, you should never get drunk as this can not only cause you to act and behave in an unruly manner, it could also affect your sexual performance and libido as well.
  • Do pick people who are comfortable with a threesome – When you take part in a 3some, it is essential that all parties involved are fully comfortable with taking part in a threesome. This is where the threesome dating sites prove to be so effective, because they allow people to understand exactly what they are getting involved in, as they are designed specifically for people looking to take part in a threesome. If one person is unsure, don’t try to pressure them into doing something they aren’t comfortable with, as that is not fair.
  • Don’t overstep the boundaries – Remember, a threesome is all about great sex between three consenting adults. Whilst it can be easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment, it’s important to remember that you should never overstep the boundaries. If for example, one member has stated that they do not want to be kissed, you should always respect these wishes. Rules are there for a reason, so follow them, and always respect other people’s wishes.
  • Do lay down some ground rules – Before you begin, it’s always a good idea to lay down a few basic ground rules. For example, if you do not wish to be touched in a certain area on your body, let this be known to the other participants. You could also include a safe word for any member to call out at any time, if they do wish to stop.

2018/02/07


  
Now there are a load of swinger’s websites that we joined at first. But we soon gave up on them when we found most swingers are in their mid forties to fifties. And they tend to couples dating rather than have threesomes.
My husband will not have a romantic threesome or a foursome if another man is involved. And I personally wouldn’t want that either.

Adult Hookup 

So we carried on looking and came across Craigslist. So we started placing couple seeking woman ads and couple looking for third ads on this free ads site. But the amount of strange replies we received made us give up on that idea to.
Then one day my husband came across an adult dating site. Where we could find a threesome playmate and we didn’t even realise these kind’s of dating websites even existed.

Couple Seeking Girl

So we joined up as free members and filled in our profile page and waited to see if anyone replied. Sure enough we had around six responses but only two seemed to be genuine.
And to get in contact with these two members we had to pay a joining fee. Which we gladly did and were able to respond back to them.
As it turns out one of the ladies who got in touch with us lived in the town next to ours. So we didn’t even have to travel far which was a bonus.
Anyway we met up with this woman and we all got along very well and we all ended up in bed together which was the plan.
We have since joined a few different adult dating websites over the years. And we now only use three that are really any good. But there is one we swear by and get most of our threesome partners with today.
So if you’re a couple seeking woman for the first time. I would recommend trying out one of these dating sites before placing couple seeking third ads in papers. Or going to bars and clubs in the hope of finding a threesome partner.

2018/02/03


If you are trying  to pick up threesome dating online and just can't get at least one date a week you certainly need a little help. Just read this article and  start using these online flirting success tips and they will help you to get that first threesome dating much faster on threesome websites.

You don't want to spend too much time online because you really can't feel the chemistry until the first real world date. However, you can get the threesome partner you're talking to to be  interested in you and set her hot fire?just to get to know you better.

Keep in mind that the third person (M OR F) feel attraction for a very different set of reasons than two dating do. Where couple seeking girl, they wish to the girl who are interested in attending their threesome dating, but in fact, that's so hard and take much time.

So, what are the secrets to get a threesome date after one hour and 15 minutes of  flirting online?

1. Make your replies simple and use easy questions. Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with.

2. Women always fall for men who are a little bit unreachable. Think of yourself as special and know what you deserve.

3. Be yourself. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

4. Be funny but in the same time a little bit arrogant. It creates a wonderful, entertaining challenge that the third woman just love to engage in...  If you make a naughty, fun comment, something she is NOT expecting, then something magical begins to happen: she feels a spark of attraction, curiosity, intrigue because you're obviously different.

5. People like people who are interested in them. So  when you engage someone in conversation make sure you spend at least 62% of the time listening to THEM!

6. When you are talking about you, tell enough just to get her trust but keep a little mystery about you.

7. Never ever make yourself to available. In one hour of online conversation you have to make her believe that you're confident, that you're intelligent and funny. Don't stay any longer or you risk to become boring.

8. Find an excuse and just go, but not before you let her know that you're interested in her. Set another online date but not for the next day. You are a busy guy! Let her heat up a little bit. :)

9. At the second threesome dating (online), after 15 minutes of talking, just say they, I have some spare time this evening, can we meet?

I just want to... convince myself that you are real.?This way, she will be surprised and won't have to much time to make the decision and you will run less risk of being rejected.

If she is interested in you but she already has something fixed for that evening, she will ask for a date another time. If she don't, just say, next!

Good luck and have fun! If you wish to learn more about threesome dating, the reddit you can visit: https://www.reddit.com/r/Threesome_Dating_Site/

2018/01/28

First of all you should have a clear idea of what you expect from this experience and try to make a plan of actions. All that preplanning will help you to avoid the mistakes and to enjoy your threesome experience fully.
Usually the most desirable for men type of threesome is with two women. one of them usually is searched on a threesome dating sites. Some men include their girlfriend or wives in threesome activities, the others don't. Well, it all depends on your imagination and sexuality.

When dealing with this kind of threesome a man should understand that the comfort of his woman (if she is involved) must be his first and major objective. This kind of experience with affect your relationships for sure, therefore try to avoid anything that would be uncomfortable for her. Keep in mind that you should give your woman the most of your attention in order not to cause her being jealous. Assure your girlfriend that she is your prior concern and it's a pure experiment for fun.

Never forget about safety. Use different condom for each partner and different hands for pleasuring each woman. For safety reasons it is better not to swap hands. The same safety rules are applicable if you use different sex toys during your play. Apply a separate condom for every toy when using it on each partner.

The common misconception about threesome with two women and a man is that a man is a center and gets all the attention from both women. Having these expectations you may feel a little bit ignored because your women will be also busy pleasuring each other as well. It's not you who gets the most of attention. It is more like a cycle activity, sex moves from person to person and the wisest thing here is to be as generous and giving as possible and you will get all the attention in return. Concentrate on pleasuring your women and eventually you will get the rewards.

There will be moments when you might feel completely abandoned, when two women are pleasuring each other. Instead of simply watching them, get yourself involved. You can pleasure yourself during these breaks of course, but there are much more exiting things to do. See what you can do. If one of the women is positioned comfortably to give oral sex, take the initiative. Or you can also caress their breasts, backs, inner thighs. Forget about your feelings, get sensual.  

Another difficulty that you may face is the penetration. When you are penetrating one woman the other is left on her own, that is why you should make sure that both women agree on that. But even the penetration is different in threesome dating. It's no one on one sex; all three of you should get the attention. So, when penetration one woman you can give some attention to the other, for example talk dirty to her, caress her with your hands, kiss her, etc.

More likely that you will get overexcited from threesome experience and come more quickly than usual, but dont forget to make sure that both women are satisfied, you must make both of  women climax by any means.
Also keep in mind that it is just a sexual experiment not a relationship. But if dont feel confident about finding a threesome, don't try to relax by drinking for bravery, as usually it ends up in a morning disappointment?
Therefore all three of you must feel comfortable with the idea of having a threesome experience.

That is the only way it is going to work and give you exciting sexual experience.